there's prolly a lot of this kind of people - but i try to stay away from most evil people - and my memory disappeared once when i was tie-dying some shirts
so only three come to mind - but they certainly stand out
these are what i call inserters
when they are talking to you, and their friends are around, they will stand in between you and their friends so they have total control over your conversation
or, if you are both talking to someone else, they will insert themselves between you and the other person so they get all the attention
i believe this is merely an extension of some bad habits a lot of people have, who are not crass enough to actually go so far as to physically insert themselves between you and someone else
these are machiavellian people who seem to be in a constant struggle for dominance - in trivial pursuits
and don't know a hell a lot about class, finesse, or democracy
i tell you this because i have learnt - AVOID PEOPLE WHO INSERT
of the three inserters i have in mind, two of them threatenned to kill me, and one actually tried
i discovered that inserters all seem to have a lot of other characteristics in common
- they are in perpetual fear and worry
- they talk and talk to impress and get attention
- they lie
- they are territorial
- they never really get far in their lives
- they believe themselves to have sincere values, but this is more talk
- they demand respect, but they don't give commeasurate respect
- they also tend to whine a lot and seek sympathy
the main thing is - you can save a lot of time by recognising inserting behaviour, and so avoid further association with these people
because they would kill you if they thought it right and could get away with it
peace be with you
