Here's a chance to reach out and help this person, esp. if you happen to be st_martin_a. Just beware that there are many posts on CL, real or not, which end up asking for money or personal info. Also, this article popped up - for compare/contrast - ‘God Made Me Black on Purpose’.
Speaking of ethnicity: False St Patrick’s Day cliches that drive Irish people crazy
I also found the ff CL posts to be mildly interesting...
Exploring the universe - m4m
Bored intellectual - m4m (Whitewater)
I've lost interest in my interests. - m4w (Madison)
Different Animal Activities!? - w4m (Rockton)
Yes, I was a Rodeo Clown - m4w (Northern Illinois)
I think a solution for some of these people would be to join LJ. And also for people fleeing the corporate rudeness and HS childishness of FB.
I have been dealing with the flu, on top of hangover. Just slowly crawling out of it. I think I might re-watch and study my 3 Will Rogers movies, starting today. I have four voicemails to deal with...