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from my brain to yours

Posted on 2012.10.30 at 21:26
I suffer for you all, with my migraine full of blues. Here is a picture of my apartment, from the perspective of my brain: http://www.fantasysfblog.com/pics/cabin_in_the_woods_cool_poster.jpg. I just saw a wonderful apartment in CL for $390 on a vast farm, horses and dogs OK, rent negotiable, offered by some guy named JOE... I'm guarded. Nether Girl was outside calling me from her balcony. She said she wanted the house bommed cuz she is having more cockroaches than ever. She thought I was avoiding calls from the land people, trying to set up an appointment for said bomming. But she was mislead. In fact, the land people haven't been calling and they just want her gone. If she goes, that means downstairs will be nice and cold, and cockroaches will go away, cuz they ain't such a problem for me up here. This is a day after I left a message to the land people saying, "If you can just make her go away, that would be super." ha ha... Basically, I'm fine with waiting this out. She keeps talking about moving but never does, to quote my lady of land. Also, I've come to an assessment of the Nether people which is helpful to my sanity, thusly: SHE is OCD passive aggressive, and this is partly or all-ly related to her sickle cell. But it makes life a living hell for people she knows or lives around. She has paranoia and persecution complexes that may put her more in the schizophrenic category. And then issues of borderline personality, but this is common to schizophrenics. I'm just sticking to a definition of OCD/passive-aggressive. Works for me. Her boyfriend is clearly a narcissist with father issues. They are an explosive combination. I can whistle calmly and sometimes N-Girl has her dog so hyper-tuned that he barks constantly, and obediently freaks her out. This all sounds silly but really it has been hell. Her boyfriend has been sucked into her imaginary wars, and the banging and pounding and hatred etc. has come from both of them, but I can't separate all of this from their wars against each other. SHE apparently hates everyone. So frickin negative. And wants everyone to do things for her, but knows little about helping herself. It's really a shame. But not while I have a migraine it isn't.

Comments:


redheadgirl74
redheadgirl74 at 2012-10-31 02:39 (UTC) (Lien)
"And then issues of borderline personality, but this is common to schizophrenics". I cannot describe how happy this line made me.
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madman101 at 2012-11-01 08:57 (UTC) (Lien)
ah, another fine connoisseur of insanity
Evil Tracey
eviltracey at 2012-10-31 04:42 (UTC) (Lien)
Have you received a response from your LL?

In the meantime, do you have rugs or furniture or something you can put above the Nethers' favourite arguing spot? Something that can absorb the noise? Or can you use earplugs or headphones....
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madman101 at 2012-11-01 09:06 (UTC) (Lien)
this is the first time i have received no response from her - which i sorta understand

well, now n-girl asked me to leave a message for LL, about her cock(roaches) and i dunno, (i'll be sending a note, i spose) - it might end up w/ LL confused and so accidentally mentioning that i told her i might be complaining to police about N-people, which would be a big mess...

ha - when i first set-up apartment, that was a primary concern, cuz they were generating mega-noise non-stop, so things are set up which may baffle normal noise, but not the supersonic earthquake stuff they blast

i have earplugs but small ear canals. and a pair of noise-cancelling, AM/FM earphones/radio is something on my wishbucket list, but i take my time shopping for value on such items, plus they cost money ha ha

still, i can't see trying to sleep with headphones on. unless i lived in outer space, which i could see.
Evil Tracey
eviltracey at 2012-11-02 05:59 (UTC) (Lien)
I'm curious: why can't Nether Girl contact the LL herself?
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madman101 at 2012-11-02 15:20 (UTC) (Lien)
ha ha - well.. the LL won't return her calls

I guess the LL is accustomed to transforming into a slumlord in certain conditions - as she mainly wants to avoid negativity or problems. She was way out in front taking care of the problem first time around. Then she found out from me that I was finding some, but I told her I took care of them, which I did. So long as I'm happy, she hasn't been interested in bomming a second time.

N-Girl has been always negative about the LL, and everyone else. A few days ago, she came out and told me that the LL was trying to call me. (I the N-heads, I was the problem). But I told her this was not true. She had only called the LL and assumed the LL was calling me. She expects solutions from OTHER PEOPLE. I told her I don't have a cockroach problem. But, she said that, after they bommed last time around, the cockroaches, "were WORSE!" Another obvious lie.

I am happy with just sitting and waiting for her to fulfill her threat to move. For now, everything down there is quiet, cuz they are expecting me to solve their problem. Nope. Thank you, Karma, yo.

Or: never mess with a MASTER, (of passive aggression).
Evil Tracey
eviltracey at 2012-11-03 03:46 (UTC) (Lien)
I wonder if the Nethers are doing things that keep the cockroaches coming. Someone I knew had them...they hide in cardboard boxes, for one, and they hid in boxes that she used to move her possessions to a new apartment. :-( The Nethers don't sound like conscientious people.
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madman101 at 2012-11-03 03:54 (UTC) (Lien)
I have cardboard boxes everywhere!

But I sprayed and set bait and got rid of them, so they are coming from downstairs.

They are so busy fighting or dealing with 2 dogs, OR BLAMING ME, to seriously understand how to get rid of them - even though I listed options and gave them spray, etc.

But the main problem,I think, is that she is constantly washing things - so there is always a lot of available water. I think water is the most important thing as far as cockroaches go.

No, they are anti-conscientious.

On the other hand, my LL is so conscientious, I said, "You are a very conscientious person!"
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